I've been doing a lot of self reflection lately, which made me write this blog post.

So what am I currently up to lately?

Well, the title says it all. 

I'm bringing in sexy back  exploring and also going back to my hobbies lately. There are a lot of things I put on "hiatus" since I put something else on my top five. (Yes, this is a teeny tiny reference from Taylor Swift's song called "Bejeweled".)

And by the way, I'm going out tonight. (Just another reference from Bejeweled, I'm not going out at this hour. It's midnight.)  

Lately, I've been reading books... Mostly self help-ish books for now, but I have a list of fiction works too! (Big thanks to Pauline!)

I'm halfway through "101 essays that will change the way you think" by Brianna West. I got this from Carlyn, who told me that she'll let me borrow this but surprise surprise, she bought it for me. To be honest, that book got me thinking. (Hahaha punny.)

I'm currently reading "101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties" by Paul Angone.

This book just gave me more questions to ponder about. Kidding aside, it's a really good read. I get to see some things in a different point of view. I'm planning to get my hands on his other book soon. 

And while we're on the topic, I am interested in writing at the moment. I have two novels in mind (and are waiting to come to life), I reopened my other Instagram account which will be a safe space for me to romanticize my life and speak my mind, I'm getting myself back into journaling aaaand of course, this blog. 

I really don't think I should just abandon this one since I spent my teenage years babbling about my activities, adventures and little moments - even if most weren't published. Long story short, Attamarie is a huge part of me. (Well... it should be. lol)

For crafts and art, I've been adding (more) colors to my life. And I've been creating stickers once in a while. I'm helping out my mom with her side hustle. 

When it comes to people, I'm really grateful for my family and friends too. Lookie here, special mention time: Samantha, the B1 to my B2 (🍌), who I've known since 3rd grade and has always been there for me. Natalie and Sophia, my best friends in senior high school. Online friends especially Aalia, Angeli, Pauline and my friends from work too!! 💜

Oh, I haven't mentioned that I went to this 1D event last month, and maaaaan, I felt like I was 14 again. I listened to the old artists I loved, hoping to see them live soon too. (OH. I gotta blog about the Jonas Brothers and Taylor Swift concert I went to earlier this year!!!)

my "lol ur not harry styles" shirt (and new-ish hair)

Mamma mia, here I go again: I'm talking about some of the things that make me happy and things that make me feel alive.

I'm healing myself by going back to the things I love and things I've always wanted to do/experience before. I'm free to do things now. (I'm a real tough kid, I can handle my *bleep*) 

Ending this blog post with another Taylor Swift lyric. :)

I'm the only one of me. Baby, that's the fun of me. (ME HE HE!)

07/04/2024

Wow. . . time flies. We’re already halfway through the year 2024. The last time I published something on this blog was back in 2020. So yeah, I guess I could say that it’s been quite a while. 

To be honest, this is going to be (another) quite personal post. I hope I’m making sense with whatever I’ll be talking about. So, whoever is reading this… hi. If it’s my future self, well… hello. I hope you’re doing well and I hope you’re finally the better version of Nikka Marie. :)

The past few weeks have been uncomfortable for me. Hm, or maybe this was the uncomfiest I’ve been. I’ve been stressed for a few months and I’ve got a lot of stuff going on inside my head - questions, thoughts, the never ending “what ifs” and “could’ve beens”, what does the future hold for me, am I on the right path, and a lot more. 

It’s like you’re suddenly somewhere in the forest and you’re bad at directions. You had a map back then but unfortunately, that map isn’t that readable anymore as it got torn to pieces - because of the rain. How do I get out? Or how can I get out?

Do you wait for people to look for you? Do you scream until you’re heard and someone finds you? Well, you can scream for help. Asking for help is good too.

Guess what? You forgot something, self.

You’re good at remembering details. And you pay attention to a lot of things.

And that’s one of the things I like about me. 

—

I spent the past hour reading my old blog posts and the drafts I wrote when I was holding on to some strong feelings back in 2016-2019. Reading my old blogs got me thinking much more, to be honest. I’m glad I got to write about most things.

Nikka during her early teenage years was always someone unique. She’s intimidating, I’d say. She’s strong, she’s creative, she’s witty, she’s openminded, she’s not afraid to say what’s on her mind and she knows who she is. She started blogging and writing stories online at this age. She’s nice but she can be harsh, and man, she can fight. She’s got quite a temper, and it’s quite obvious if she doesn’t like someone or something. 

If I could describe her using a color, I’d say she’s. . . probably purple? Or a darker shade of pink? 

But I did notice that there were a few changes in my late teenage years. 

At 16 and 17, this Nikka was exposed to a large number of people in class. She chose a different path and that was a great decision. She made friends, she went out of her bubble (well, I’d say). She didn’t feel like her new classmates and schoolmates found her intimidating, which was good. I could approach others with ease and I showed my heart on my sleeve. (wow.) 

She’s still shy but she’s open to meet new people and connect with them. She’s still creative, but she stopped writing stories and had less time to draw. She’s still witty, she laughs a lot more. She fell in love and also cherished a lot of people. She’s selfless. She’s nice and she doesn’t like conflict. She’s warm but somehow became too “soft”. She changed in so many ways that I can’t really explain. She gets upset but forgives and forgets about it too easily. She’s a thinker. She always tries to understand everything. She hates blaming herself and hates being blamed. She doesn’t like making mistakes and making others feel bad —  she hates that. Like everyone, she hates every negative thing. And kinda it sucks because she remembers stuff all too well.

Now, if I could describe her with a color, well. . . I don’t think there’s an exact color to describe this kid. Maybe anything in pastel and soft colors would fit her. She’s too “colorful” to be described with just one color. Sabi nga sakin, naglalakad na pastel color ako eh. 

Moving forward, we have 18-19 year old Nikka. Oh man, where do I start?

At this age, she went through a lot - both good and bad. There were messy thoughts, messy events, messy feelings and… a messy desk. Plus, college came in the picture. 

Being a new kid in a big university was really scary. New people, new place and somehow, a new life. She made a few friends and was exposed to different people. She became more introverted and sensed that some found her intimidating. She was alone, but not that lonely. She was at peace with her “me time”. Maybe it’s just her not being able to control her facial reactions or maybe she just wasn’t that comfortable (yet). She wasn’t that confident at this time, due to a lot of reasons. (sigh)

There were thoughts about the path she took - Is this really what I want? Was that person right about me not being a perfect “fit” in this field and place? What if I was a Multimedia Arts student? Would I excel in this field? What if they were right? What if I was wrong? What if this is not the right place? What if this isn’t for me?

And as hectic as college was, she still managed to balanced real life and her love for art. 

She found herself little by little and through different forms. She’s still and will always be creative. She knows her limits. She knows and accepted her weaknesses, she tries (/is still trying) to work on it. She can fight and stand up for herself at times, but she’s still too “soft” for all of it. She knows when to distance herself. She became more of a thinker. She’s more understanding at this age - or she tries harder to understand things more. She expresses herself better through art or writing. 

Her definition of love and life has always been the same. Trying to look at the positive side as always, even though a lot of things happened. Trying to work things out and improve. I guess this Nikka was definitely a yellow… butterscotch yellow. Not too dark, not too dull and not too light. 

And now we have Nikka in her early 20s. Ganap na adult na tayo.

I won’t dive into details about what I do but hey, I got a job connected to the course I took in college! :D 

I started working 4 months after my graduation because I waited for this opportunity. I prayed for this and now, I’m here. I’m growing and I’ve been working hard. (Wow, re-reading that sentence makes me SO proud of myself) And I get to treat myself and my loved ones. I get to help out as well, try and eat good food, experience new things and save up. But still, there’s more to life. 

In this age, I lost some people in my life. Of course, you get sad over these events… but you can always cherish the moments you spent with them - whether it was eating peanut butter and jelly sandwich with them, opening up to them about your old crush while they were knitting, seeing them dance every Christmas and birthdays, being with them at the mall with the rest of the family, visiting them, sharing books and interests, listening to certain artists or playing video games, or maybe even as simple as sitting next to them. 

I also lost time for doing activities that make me… “me”. I miss having time to create digital art, I miss reading books, I miss painting, I miss cooking a certain dish, I miss writing (hopefully I get to blog more after this) and a lot more. Hopefully one of these days, I get to do it all again. I just need time. and energy. 

I’m not sure if I could describe my current self using a color. Lately, I’ve been feeling greige and red, as I’m still a work in process and I feel every single emotion too intensely. 

I’m still working on my strengths and weaknesses. I still can’t and won’t dance but I can play the piano and kalimba. I’m a listener, a thinker but still not much of a talker. I’m still that introvert but I’ll get there. (Look at me surviving 5+ hours straight meetings. lol) I get stressed out but I’m learning. I get confused and tired too but I’m growing. I know that I did and I am doing my best. I’ve been doing a lot of self reflection and realizing a lot of things. I’ve always been selfless. I’m understanding and I care a lot. I have a lot of feelings. I am full of love and I will continue giving my heart to my favorite people.

And of course, me. 

 

I guess that’s it. This is a reaaaaaaaallllyyyyyyy looooooooooong reflection. Ending this blog post now. :)

If you got stuck in the middle of the nowhere, try looking back. Trace your steps until you find your way out. 

How did you get here in the first place? 

You walked. 

- Nikka.

P.S. nikka marie, proofread mo ito next time. antok na ako. lol.

hello, human(s)! welcome back to my blog. :)

it has been months since i last posted a thing. so let me just... drop another post then disappear again for a few months. lol half kidding.
anyways! why am i here? what am i now? (*harry styles voice*) what if i'm someone you wo-- ay um.
i'm here to tell you little updates and something i (re)discovered.
so. . . what's "artamarie"?

well. . . besides the fact that it is a bad pun of my blog and nickname, it is what I'm calling (and dropping) my art stuff. all my paintings, doodles, sketches, digital illustrations, and everything i'll be doing concerning art.
i've been in love with art for quite some time now. (well. . . "in love" is such a strong word, let's just use "dedicated". uh. i guess?)

more details and updates about your girl, nik. i've been:
1.) painting! digital and traditional painting, that is. 
- i just love how the colors mix with one another and how flowy the brush is when it gets in contact with the canvas.

2.) digital illustrations. 
- made by yours truly. and some are for "draw this in your style" challenges. i've come up with different ideas to draw soon. and i'm really excited to show it. i'm currently doing a feelings lately series. (will write and compile all of it once i finished the illustrations.)

3.) accepting commissions!
- yes, i've been accepting commissions/customized orders for my coin purses, pouches and totebags. very very very very blessed to be surrounded with people who support and love my art. aaaahckkkkkk

4.) stickers
- no description found. loljk. keep your eyes... peeled. (okay, bad pun.)

5.) stay at home
- well. . . there's this virus that's sending a lot of panic to all of us that most people are staying at home. y'all know what i'm talking about. but hey. stay safe. hope and pray that all this panic will pass. wash your hands and also, clean your phones. :/
(p.s. DON'T HOARD ALCOHOL AND MASKS YOU LITTLE T-- yeah. please don't.)



i guess that's all for now. i really need to start on my online assessments. (look at me cramming by creating a blog post. lol.)
thank you for reading! see you next time! stay safe and God bless.

- Nik

i think this blog has kind of became a diary, where i drop some things to tell to my future self, that may also be applicable to the person reading every post. (err.. if there's still someone out there reading) 

anyways.

and now, i'm here. wrapped in my blanket, in front of my laptop, trying to get this message out.

think of what made you laugh, what made you felt good, what made you felt loved and important, and think of how great and how much you've improved at the moment.

i know, i have been busy. i haven't been posting. i haven't thought of anything "interesting" for you, guys. i haven't thought of anything to write about for the past few months.
but yes, i am back to ramble about who-knows-what.
welcome back to my blog. (if uh... there's actually someone reading. lol)
i'm a college student.
so that means i have no time for myself. (yay thank you, incredible-people-who-love-to-pressure-students-and-drop-bazillion-tasks-which-are-due-tomorrow-or-the-next-day.)
being a college student is really, really, r e a l l y stressful. but it'd be nicer if you had great friends or people to hang out with. (take this small piece of advice, fam.)

i've been painting. again.
this is something i'm actually happy to tell you about. i love art. i love painting, sketching and also having paint all over my hands and arms.
i'm also selling handpainted coin purses and pouches. which is really fun but kind of stressful when you have to rush orders. but hey. i am very thankful. :)

i've been writing on my journal.
i never got to finish my 2018 journal so... i stapled it and forgot it ever happened. HAHAHAHA
and it's great that i've been writing consistently, telling my journal (and my future-self) what happened for today, what was my mood, and some things to reminisce about.

and another great thing to talk and mention is,
i have another (oh no) story in mind. and i really, really, really, really, really want to write it.
but i'm really bad at managing my time, thinking of titles and character names, and actually being consistent with writing stories/books. wish me luck, though.
i might write about it during our school break. i'll be listing the deets somewhere else, so that i wouldn't forget about the ideas.
and also.
i want to create comics. but this time, it's going to be mixed with the reality of me, being me. (if you know or met me personally, you'd understand.) i'm still having a hard time finding/creating my art style. so it may take a while.

i guess... i'm done?
i hope to see/talk to you again soon. i'll tell you about my adventures and thoughts next time.
if there's actually someone scrolling down, thank you for reading!!! i appreciate your effort and the fact that you really took some time in reading. you're a great person. :) i hope you're doing great.

that's all, folks.
i'm out. nikka out.
bye! :)